The Pursuit

A few weeks before I left a job, someone new was being introduced to the team. The people making the introduction had been there for years; serving coffee each morning, watching faces come and go, working a memorial for a colleague we had all lost. They pulled him aside and said:

“This is Douglas. He sees us. That’s what’s different.”

Not said to me. Said about me. To a stranger. As an orientation to a place.

I had brought them hydrangeas from my garden. I knew their names. I sought out the security guard at the door, the person behind the coffee cart. Because why would you not? And somewhere in those small things, over years, something had formed that I never set out to build. It was simply how I moved through the world.

The Human Element is what I call it. I have been on this journey since 2015, when a mentor asked me what my brand would be in five years. Not my title. Not my company. My brand. I didn’t have an answer. I started writing to find one.

What I’ve found is this. The innate connection that draws us closer is not complicated. It lives in a name tag read and used. A note written on stationery and left for someone who deserved it. A hydrangea carried in on a Tuesday for no occasion at all. Hospitality is my DNA, but this isn’t about an industry. It is about every person we pass through life with and whether we choose to see them.

I believe there is light in all of us. My work, in every sense, has been to protect it. In others and, after some hard seasons, in myself.

I’m Douglas. Atlanta is home. My partner and Bailey, our beagle, are my constants. I continue to walk the earth on my relentless journey to define The Human Element.

If you’re new here, start with the The Story — they’ll tell you what brought all of this about and why it still matters. Then stay tuned. There is more coming.

One more thing. Every word on this site is written by me. Not generated, not assisted, not optimized. In an age when that has become worth saying out loud — consider it said.

Be humble, be grateful, be true to you.

Opinions are entirely my own and do not reflect the views of my employer.